Baby and toddler groups
Sometimes when you are looking after a young child, you can feel a little lonely and isolated. They are truly a joy to be with, but not always the best at conversation, so why not find out about your local baby and toddler groups where you can meet other parents and carers in an environment that is welcoming to young children?
It’s not unusual for the friends that you make at the baby and toddler group to become friends for life as your children grow up together.
Frequency asked questions
How can I find a local group?
Baby and toddler groups can be found running in communities across the country. Some are more ‘traditional’ groups with a range of toys and activities out for families to use, but others may have a specific theme, such as sensory play, music and movement or baby massage.
Groups advertise in family hubs, local magazines, noticeboards, community halls, schools, faith groups, shops or doctor’s surgeries. Your health visitor may also have a good idea of what’s running nearby.
Alternatively, you can use online searches such as your local authority family information service which will have a range of childcare options listed that includes baby and toddler-style groups.
Other sources of information on local groups include:
How much will it cost me?
Costs can vary from group to group, how many children you are taking along, how long the session is and if a snack is provided. Groups with specific themes tend to cost more and some groups may ask for you to pay in advance for a set number of weeks, although they often let you have a taster session first before any financial commitment. Talk to the leaders of the session to find out more and check out any information online such as session timings, routines and reviews.
What if I don’t know anyone?
Leaving the house with a baby or toddler can be daunting as they don’t travel light and don’t always understand or know our routines. Perhaps there is someone who could help on those first few visits to make things easier for you.
If not, remember that going somewhere new is always a bit awkward and difficult, but you are in the company of a natural born icebreaker – your little one! Everyone at the group has something in common so you can always start a conversation by asking how old a child is or what they are called. When you arrive, let the group leaders know that it’s your first week and they will help you to feel welcome by explaining the group to you and introducing you to some other parents/carers.
What if my little one gets upset?
Going to a group is a new and different experience for your little one and there will be times when they feel overwhelmed or unsure. Do remember that everyone in the room has been through a similar situation with their own children so will understand what is happening and how you are feeling. Don’t be afraid to ask for help and support either from other families or from group leaders.
Will I be expected to join in?
The best way to keep a little one engaged is to be in the moment with them joining in and showing them how much fun things can be. You might not feel comfortable singing or dancing in front of others or if you’re not sure what to do with playdough, and that’s ok. Take your time, get to know the routines and the people around you and give something new a try when you are ready.
What is my little one gaining from going to a baby and toddler group?
Baby and toddler groups offer your little one the chance to socialise, connect with others and explore the world around them building their confidence. There’s the chance for new experiences – sensory play, space for physical play, problem solving and activities such as song and story time that support their communication and language skills. Activities are provided that are suitable for a range of stages of development and interests.
The activities that are offered at groups can help to inspire you to try out new things at home too. Perhaps one of the stories from the group could become a bedtime favourite or song time could provide you with a wake-up song in the morning. Maybe you could try to make your own treasure basket or playdough giving your little one new and exciting opportunities to learn at home?
Are there rules I need to be aware of and follow?
Most groups will have some guidelines in place that help the sessions to run smoothly and keep everyone safe – for example, what to do with dirty nappies or what happens about hot drinks – but these will be explained to you and if you’re not sure just ask. Do remember though that baby and toddler groups are not childcare, and so you or your child’s carer will be expected to be responsible for them at all times.
Can grandparents go to groups?
Absolutely, and in fact some groups are run specifically for grandparents.
Can I get more involved?
Many groups are run by volunteers who give up their time and energy each week for the benefit of the community and will welcome helpers with open arms! It’s a great way of getting to know more people and there can be different roles to suit you and your skills – perhaps helping each week at the sessions, fundraising or looking after social media. You may also be able to access free training as a volunteer to support you in your role.
